
Frankfort Martial Arts: 5 Leadership Skills Kids Develop
Frankfort families are witnessing their children transform into natural leaders through martial arts training at Tri-Star. Rather than waiting for leadership opportunities to arise in school, parents are discovering how martial arts proactively develops essential leadership qualities that serve children throughout their lives.
Leadership Skill #1: Confident Communication That Inspires Others
“Over the years she’s learned valuable skills like confidence and how to be a leader,” shares Marisa about her daughter’s transformation. Moreover, this confidence enables children to communicate effectively with peers and adults.
Through martial arts demonstration and instruction, children naturally develop:
- Clear verbal communication abilities
- Comfort speaking in front of groups
- Active listening skills with peers
- Positive encouragement for struggling classmates
- Public presentation confidence
As a result, teachers and parents notice children volunteering for leadership roles in school projects and community activities.

Leadership Skill #2: Servant Leadership Through Mentoring
Rosalyn’s story perfectly illustrates this leadership development. Known as “the child whisperer,” she “runs in to help the little ones with fear they have and sticking up for others of all ages.”
Through peer mentoring opportunities, students master:
- Understanding and empathy for others’ struggles
- Natural helping and supporting abilities
- Standing up for those who need assistance
- Patience when teaching new students
- Humble service to the martial arts community
Furthermore, this servant leadership mindset creates children who lead by example rather than demanding authority.
Leadership Skill #3: Problem-Solving Under Pressure
Unlike leadership programs that focus on theory, martial arts develops practical problem-solving abilities. “They work on focus and strong ethics,” notes Amber about the comprehensive character development.
Through challenging training scenarios, children learn:
- Calm decision-making during stressful moments
- Creative solutions to unexpected problems
- Analytical thinking under pressure
- Collaborative problem-solving with teammates
- Persistence when initial solutions don’t work

Leadership Skill #4: Emotional Intelligence and Team Building
While technical skills are important, emotional leadership often determines success. Therefore, martial arts emphasizes developing emotional intelligence alongside physical abilities.
Children naturally become:
- Understanding listeners for peer concerns
- Conflict resolution mediators
- Positive motivators during difficult training
- Inclusive team builders who welcome newcomers
- Emotional support providers for struggling classmates
Most importantly, “much more is taught in class than just martial arts,” explains Tyler. “Discipline, respect, team work, integrity and much more.”
Leadership Skill #5: Character-Based Authority That Earns Respect
When children demonstrate consistent character, they naturally earn leadership opportunities. “Her discipline has improved dramatically,” shares Jillian about her daughter. Consequently, other students look to her for guidance and example.
Through consistent character development, students build:
- Integrity that others can trust
- Self-discipline that inspires peers
- Respect for others that creates loyalty
- Positive attitude that motivates teammates
- Moral courage to do what’s right
As Raechel explains, “Mr. Brumitt is absolutely phenomenal with the kids and my son loves going and is learning life skills.”
The Tri-Star Frankfort Martial Arts Leadership Advantage
What makes these leadership skills so effective is how they develop naturally through martial arts practice. Instead offorced leadership exercises, children acquire these abilities through engaging character development and peer interaction.
Our program offers:
- No fitness requirements to start
- Individual leadership development paths
- Expert, compassionate instruction
- Safe learning environment
- Christian values foundation
As Katie emphasizes, our “wonderful instructors teach the kids such great skills,” creating an environment where leadership emerges from strong character rather than position or authority.
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Located just minutes from Frankfort at 12410 W Horseshoe Dr, Unit 1 in New Lenox, we’re proud to serve families from: • Frankfort • New Lenox • Mokena • Surrounding areas
Ready to develop essential leadership skills in your child? Start today with a FREE class! or call (815) 932-5425.
Transform your child into tomorrow’s leader through martial arts training at Tri-Star, where Frankfort families discover that true leadership grows from strong character.