Your mindset will determine your level of success, or lack thereof. Plus one more important thing I will tell you at the end of this article.
A positive mindset can empower you to abolish hurdles before they become too challenging.
It may be difficult to believe in yourself when everything around you seems to be crumbling into pieces, but keeping faith (which I will tell talk about at the end too) is the only way to trudge through the hard times and see yourself clear to better days.
Try these strategies to help you remain steadfast when you’re feeling the pressure of tough times:
1. Reflect on the past. Surely you’ve encountered seemingly insurmountable situations in the past. How have you succeeded in the most unpleasant scenarios? Clearly, your ability to overcome these situations speaks loudly for your strength and abilities.
- In some situations, you may be able to emulate your past solutions by adapting them to fit your current situation. Other times, you’ll be able to learn what not to do from past trials and tribulations.
- The past needn’t dictate your future. It’s possible to reflect without working up old, unresolved feelings. This is a positive exercise. If you begin to feel negative emotions, move onto another technique, which can help you increase self-confidence in your abilities.
2. Act immediately. Rather than retreating into your personal cocoon when a situation becomes intimidating, address it immediately. The longer you allow a situation to sit without attention, the more urgent it will become. A perfect example is debt.
- Avoid cornering yourself with urgency by creating a proactive plan now. Or, better yet, have a just-in-case plan before the event ever happens. It’s okay to take a few hours to create a plan of attack. But, if you’re still brainstorming weeks from today, you may be stalling.
- Only you can be the source of a solution. You are in charge of managing your life and ensuring its success. Take pride in this power. After all, you’re free – no one commands you! Your life is what you make it. And you can use your power to start off on the right foot each and every day.
3. Believe it. You will make it through. You’ve found your way out of a tough situation before. You’ll do it now and again sometime in the future. There is always a way to get your head above the water – always. You’ll get better at it once you gain experience.
- You have a fan base of supporters. Your children, spouse, and extended family are cheering you on every day. Chances are that no one doubts your abilities the way you do. In fact, they have faith in your abilities because you’ve proven your strength time and time again.
- As Bernice Johnson Reagon once said, “Life’s challenges are not supposed to paralyze you; they’re supposed to help you discover who you are.”
- Now is as good of a time as any to show yourself what you’re made of. Confirm to yourself that you’re as strong and tenacious as you suspect yourself to be.
4. Ask for help. This is what always gets me through… asking my God for help. The Christian bible says in Proverbs chapter 3 verses 5-6 “Trust in the Lord with are you heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path straight.” I cling to that verse. Other verses God has used in the past for me are:
- Psalm 69: 1-3 (1) Save me, O God; for the waters are come in unto my soul. (2) I sink in deep mire, where there is no standing: I am come into deep waters, where the floods overflow me. (3) I am weary of my crying: my throat is dried: mine eyes fail while I wait for my God.
- Philippians 4:6-7 (6) Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. (7) And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
- John 16:24 (24) Until now you have not asked for anything in my name (Jesus name). Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete.
- Please understand that these scriptures only apply to true biblical believers and only by “FAITH”. If you are not sure if you are a true biblical believer or what one is then visit www.NeedGod.com
Everyone encounters hard times – it’s simply a part of life. And a very major part of how you will address these hard times is dependent on your mindset, your ability to believe in yourself, but most importantly your “faith” in God…even throughout the toughest of times.
Your mindset can be your best friend or your worst enemy. If you allow your mindset to shift into negative territory, you’ll end up with negative results. But God can and will be your best friend all the time and for eternity.